Using Donor Eggs: The Emotional Journey

Deciding to use donor eggs is a deeply personal and emotional choice. For some, using an egg donor might be the only option to grow their dream family. Whether it’s the only choice or simply the best option available, we understand that the decision is not always a simple one.  

This is why we created Everie. For more than 25 years, our expert team has been a leader in fertility and assisted reproduction, ensuring recipient parents and egg donors get more from this experience through transparency and intentional choices. At Everie, we understand the complexities involved and are committed to guiding you through the egg donation process, addressing any worries, and making certain that you feel confident and supported on your journey. 

The Emotional Journey of Using Donor Eggs

The emotional complexity of not using your own eggs might lead to feelings of doubt, sadness, or uncertainty. These feelings are completely normal, and they’re part of the reason Everie promises to be with you every step of the way. It’s essential to acknowledge these emotions and to seek support when needed—whether through counseling, joining support groups, or connecting with others who have gone through similar experiences, like so many on our team.

Prepare Yourself To Avoid Any 'Disadvantages' of Using Donor Eggs

We believe there are no inherent "disadvantages" to using donor eggs. There are just a few important factors to consider that other forms of family building might not have to consider. 

Emotional and Psychological Factors

For recipient parents, especially those who have faced fertility challenges, using donor eggs can sometimes bring up complex emotions. We recommend all our recipient parents undergo counseling, as suggested by the American Society of Reproductive Medicine. We also work to facilitate connections between parents and donors to ensure mutual support. 

Financial Considerations

Egg donation costs can add up, as you are responsible for everything from medical procedures, agency fees, and legal expenses. To help manage these costs, we offer financing options and can also recommend fertility financing options, to assist you in managing the associated costs. Some recipients may also have employer-sponsored family-building benefits, such as Progyny coverage that may be applied towards the cost of the process. 

Long-Term Considerations

We make sure all of our recipient parents are prepared to address questions about their donor-conceived child’s identity, which may come from the child themselves one day. Here at Everie, we encourage both parents and donors to have open discussions about what the child will know regarding their egg donor, when they will learn about them, and whether they can contact the donor in the future. 

How To Ensure You Are Prepared for the Journey

It’s crucial to take time to prepare for the emotional and practical aspects of using donor eggs. Here are some ways to make sure you're ready for the journey ahead: 

Do Research

When choosing the best egg donor bank, it’s important to research all available options. Look for reputable agencies with high success rates and positive reviews. At Everie Egg Bank, we focus on providing the highest quality donor eggs with full transparency, ensuring that intended parents feel confident in their choice.

Seek Counseling and Support

Speaking with fertility specialists, counselors, and other intended parents can help you navigate any concerns or questions. It’s beneficial to work with a clinic that offers counseling services and emotional support, so you feel fully prepared. 

Choose the Right Egg Donor

At Everie, we use our Mutual Matching™ process to make sure our donors and intended parents are aligned on all the most important aspects of this journey. When the donor and the recipient parents choose one another it builds a stronger sense of connection, giving more personal touch to a process that can sometimes feel transactional.  

Choose the Right Egg Donation Type

While our donors and recipient parents have the flexibility to choose the level of identity disclosure they are most comfortable with, we encourage disclosed donations. Here are the disclosure options:

• Open: Full contact details are disclosed.

• Semi-Open: Only a first name is disclosed.

• ID Release: The egg donor’s identity is dept confidential until the donor-conceived children reach adulthood and request information.

We believe that disclosed donation plays a vital role in building a strong foundation for a child's sense of identity. At Everie, we are committed to fostering a future where the next generation can learn about their origins with pride and without shame, embracing the diverse individuals who contributed to their family’s creation. Learn more about the benefits of open egg donation.

Trust the Process

At times, the journey to parenthood can feel overwhelming, but trusting the process and your team of professionals is key. At Everie, we have more than 25 years of satisfied parents and donors to attest to our success. Our network of professionals supports you throughout the process, ensuring that you have all the resources and information you need to make the best decisions for your family.

Make an Informed Decision That’s Best for YOU!

If you're feeling uncertain or worried about using donor eggs, take time to reflect on your family goals and options. Make sure you understand the extra considerations that come with using donor eggs but also recognize the many rewards that come with this life-changing decision. With the right support, research, and preparation, using donor eggs can lead to a fulfilling and successful path to parenthood. 

At Everie, we are committed to helping you make the best choice for your family. Here you will find unparalleled support and expertise. Our commitment to you, your egg donor, and fostering the family you will grow together is unwavering. 

As pioneers in the fertility landscape, combining decades of experience with a fresh vision of what egg donation should be, we guarantee to help you every step of the way. If you’re interested in becoming parents through egg donation, reach out to us to get started on this wonderful, fulfilling journey.