Should You Become an Egg Donor? Real Egg Donors Share Their Experiences

Some of the most common questions potential egg donors ask are, “Should I become an egg donor? Am I making the right choice for me?” It’s a valid and deeply personal concern. Egg donation is not just a physical process, it’s an emotional journey that deserves thoughtful reflection. 

At Everie, we believe in helping donors make informed, empowered decisions that feel right for their present and future selves. To help potential donors like you make your decision, we share real egg donor experiences with honest insights from those who’ve been through the process, explore what emotional readiness looks like, and explain how our team ensures you never feel rushed, pressured, or alone in your decision. 

Emotionally Prepare

Becoming an egg donor is not merely a one-time transactional exchange. The decision to become an egg donor is a lifelong commitment that means becoming part of something larger than yourself. It means you will have a lasting impact on another person, couple, or family by helping them bring a baby into this world. To make sure you are emotionally prepared, you have to ask yourself if you are okay with a future donor-conceived child sharing your DNA. After all, when you choose to donate, you are giving a piece of yourself to help others grow their family.

Consider Your Motivations

While there is no “wrong” reason to become an egg donor, take time to sit with your why. We understand that the monetary compensation might be a big draw factor for many women, and that’s okay! We encourage our donors to consider the emotionally rewarding aspects as well, such as helping others and becoming part of a community focused on the collective good. Knowing and understanding your own motivation can help you feel more centered and committed to the process.

Confide In Your Loved Ones

Talking with and sharing your thoughts about becoming an egg donor with a close friend, family member, or mentor can become a great emotional support throughout the journey. Having your closest circle know about your egg donation is also helpful in case a donor-conceived individual wishes to connect with you in the future. You will have people who know your situation and be there for you. (Read our post on sharing your decision with loved ones.)

Feel Comfortable With The Long-term

One of the most important things we want you to understand is that being an egg donor is not merely a momentary exchange. This is a lifelong commitment to sharing updated medical history with your recipient parents and the knowledge that you helped a family grow. Feeling comfortable with the long-term commitment is also understanding that you might one day be contacted by the donor-conceived child(ren). This is why we stand behind disclosed donations. Our Mutual Matching™ approach helps ensure both donors and intended parents feel aligned from the start. We are building the foundation for a future where we hope every donor-conceived child knows their origin.

Real Donors, Real Insights

One of the most rewarding aspects of egg donation is witnessing the meaningful difference your choice can make in someone else's life. By choosing to donate, you're offering a powerful gift: the chance for others to build a family. Whether the intended parents are single or partnered, in a heterosexual or same-sex relationship, unable to conceive naturally, or unable to use their own eggs due to genetic concerns, your generosity makes their journey to parenthood possible.

We have had the privilege of working with incredible women from all walks of life who have chosen to donate their eggs. One thing they all have in common is their generosity, compassion, and openness to contact with recipient parents.

Below are firsthand testimonials from some of these women:

• "I catch myself thinking about the couple that chose my eggs often, and the feeling is indescribable. I am so grateful to be a small part of their great big journey of life. Everyone throughout the whole experience was kind and helpful. Not once did I question my decision!”​ - Chelsea

• "Both of my donations were fully known to intended parents; however, my second donation was a fresh cycle for one set of intended parents. I got to meet them virtually over [a video call] and felt such a connection to them. Hearing about all the obstacles along their journey to become parents was truly inspiring. I was honored they chose me as their donor and know they will make incredible parents. I hope to one day hear all about the great life they give their child!​" - Megan​

• "I’m so happy, grateful, and thankful to be able to help a family out there! I’ve wanted to do this for such a long time, and I’m so happy to have been blessed to start." – ​Randi

You Are in the Driver’s Seat

While we encourage open matching and transparent donations, we always prioritize your comfort and respect your preferences.

Our experienced team of experts with decades of experience in donor support understands that every journey is personal. Whether you wish to stay connected with the families you help create or prefer a less open path, we’re here to support you fully.

At Everie, your voice is heard. Your concerns are met with care. Your choices are respected. Your decision to donate eggs is honored, both emotionally and financially.

Begin Your Journey

If you believe egg donation is the right choice for you, you can fill out an application today. You will hear back from our team and, if you meet all of our criteria, begin the screening process. We are happy to answer any questions along the way and make sure you understand the next steps, time commitment, the medical process, compensation, etc. We look forward to hearing from you!